Motivational
There was one day I walked to station bus to catch the earliest trip to my home.
Along the way, me and my friends chatting and you know what, gossiping about my colleague.
At the junction, we parted since we are going to different way.
I walked with umbrella since that day was raining. 200 meters ahead, i saw a couple sharing an umbrella, walked closely-and sweetly towards a traffic light.
It was green light for pedestrians then, so I paced up to cross the street.
When I was closer to the couple, I overheard the wife scolding the husband to cross the road quickly.
Turned out that the husband is with disability! He couldn't walk straight, seems like his leg twisted and he barely could walk by his own. He needed his wife to walk and that's why they walk together closely.
It was mind-blowing and I was like... wow.
They seemed happy from the back but when you come closer them, only then you can hear the shouting and the angry expression from both.
The expression showed up since both frustrate at each other.
The wife frustrates to her husband as he couldn't walk straight and at the same time they have to cross the road before red light.
And the husband frustrate because the wife keep scolding him.
As we can see this, it could happen with bigger picture. A marriage could seen as a happy one in an instagram, or in an event, but at the back, when we see it clearly and observe, the marriage is full of hatred and selfishness. No tolerance, no teamwork and no love. Everything changes as time goes by.
We, the outsider tend to judge them. Hey, you look happy but you aren't. You fake it.
But at the same time we aren't in their shoes, feel their pains and hardship to maintain the relationship so that people don't talk shit on them. We just criticize them, simply because they put their happy face in front and actually otherwise at back.
So, we shouldn't judge anyone's life just based on what they tried to show is not the same with what happened actually. There is always a reason why people behave like that.
We should mind our own business and pray the best for them. And hoping the hell that they're living now will be their Jannah soon.
Always make du'a for others :)
